We will help you find the answers to your questions about Youth Ministry. Here are some we frequently hear:
Avoid the tendency to sacrifice biblical integrity in the name of relevance when deciding what curriculum to use in the youth ministry. Here are some we recommend:
- Great Commission Publications So What Series
- Susan Hunt’s True Woman
- Youth Ministry Books and Studies we recommend
We also have partnerships with churches, who have graciously offered to share the resources they have developed at no cost. Look for downloadable resources on our Youth Ministry Toolbox.
Start with the mission and vision of the church and build out from there. Creating a separate mission or vision for the youth ministry can lead to conflict within the church and confusion among the students. Remember that more is not necessarily better in this case. Keep it short. Keep it simple. You want both your mission and vision to be easily remembered and easily communicated. Currently, we are developing resources for our Youth Ministry Toolbox that will help. If you have resources you would be willing to share, please email us.
The two best things that you can do are (1) pray for the Lord to raise up adults in your church to work with students and (2) ask people to become youth leaders.
Youth Ministry is highly relational. Teens want to be known, and they want leaders who will ask questions to draw them out instead of preaching at them. Working with youth is not for everyone, and that is why we don’t recommend a call for volunteers from the pulpit. Instead, prayerfully watch for those people that naturally connect with students, and then ask them directly to be a part of the Youth Ministry. Cast a vision for how God can use their investment of time and energy in the lives of students to bear eternal fruit.
Youth Ministry is like planting oak trees. Often the impact isn’t immediately obvious, but if the truth you impart takes root, it can help a person stand strong in the faith for the rest of their lives.
“You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down and when you rise.”— Deuteronomy 6:7
At CDM, we are passionate about equipping churches to disciple the next generation. Because we understand, “students don’t care how much you know, until they know how much you care,” we believe that discipleship with teens is a highly relational transference of faith between students and adults that will impact the world for generations. Youth Ministry doesn’t just minister to students. Parents are also in need of resources and equipping to help them teach their children “as they talk..walk…lie down and rise” in an ever changing world.
Teens today are deluged with information, harried with activities, isolated in social media, and in desperate need of a Biblical Worldview. The Gospel & our theology don’t change, but if we are going to effectively communicate the Truth in a world that can be hostile to our faith, the church must continually evaluate our methods.What worked yesterday, may not today. That’s why it so important that we connect with others within the PCA to discover —what’s working and what’ s not? Combining our resources as a denomination is a key part of communicating in a way that equips and encourages teens and their parents.
We have recently assembled a panel of Youth Ministry experts, and are in the process of developing a strategy for addressing some of the specific needs of this vital ministry. Check back here for updates.
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Nearly 59% of young people who grow up in Christian churches end up walking away… But the good news, research points to a strong correlation between good, integrated youth ministry and staying active in church.
YOUTH MINISTRY LEADERSHIP
CDM’s Youth Ministry Team Facilitator & Pastor of Student and Family Ministries at New City Presbyterian Church
Matt was born and raised in Michigan in a Christian home. While growing up, if the church doors were open the Luchenbill family was there. At about 12 years old he made a profession of faith. However, it wasn’t until about 16 that his faith became his own, as opposed to the faith he grew up with. It was after a Mission Trip to Mexico that he had the first idea of becoming a Youth Pastor. His desire was to see students impacted in the same way he was impacted on that trip.
After graduating from High School, Matt went to Covenant College in Lookout Mountain, GA. While at Covenant he began volunteering in the Youth Ministry at St. Elmo Presbyterian Church in Chattanooga, TN. After a year, he became the part-time Youth Director. While in college he met and married his wife Michelle. He served at St. Elmo Pres. until graduation from college in 1998 with a major in Biblical Studies and a minor in Youth Ministry.
Since graduating from College in 1998, Matt has served as a Youth Director overseeing Jr. and Sr. High ministry in 3 different Presbyterian churches in Georgia and Virginia. In January of 2012, God called him to become the Jhi Pastor at Perimeter Church, just outside of Atlanta, GA. He finished his MDIV through Metro Atlanta Seminary and became a Pastor in 2014. In January 2019 he became the Pastor of Student and Family Ministries at New City Presbyterian in Royal Oak, MI.
Matt and his wife Michelle have 4 children. Andrew and Ashley are at Covenant College, Sarah is in High School, and Emily is in Middle School.
If you can find anything outdoors and sports related, Matt is all in. His favorite hobbies are backpacking, racing in Triathlons, Mountain Biking, and talking about or participating in just about any sport, especially football.
Pastor of Families at Village Seven, Colorado Springs, CO
Having grown up in the Appalachian foothills of Lancaster, PA, Drew enjoys hiking in the forest below Pikes Peak and climbing in the Garden of the Gods. After graduating from high school, Drew ran track and earned a degree in Philosophy at Penn State. With a love for Jesus and a passion for families, he then pursued a Master of Divinity at Covenant Seminary in St. Louis, MO where he served as Jr. High Director at Kirk of the Hills PCA and married his beautiful bride, Jennifer. In 2004, Drew moved to Miami, FL to work with the youth ministry at Old Cutler PCA where he served for six years before accepting the call to serve the youth and families at Village Seven in Colorado Springs. Drew completed his Doctor of Ministry at Covenant Seminary, focusing on the Fatherhood of God and the doctrine of adoption in 2015. Drew and Jen are the proud parents of their little munchkins: Logan and Olive.
Assistant Pastor of Adult and Student Ministries, Perry Presbyterian Church
Assistant Pastor of Adult and Student Ministries Rev. Glenn Jakes was born in Atlanta, Georgia and raised in the small town of Covington, just east of Atlanta. He and his wife, Norma, met at Dekalb Junior college near Atlanta, and married in 1986. Glenn later graduated from Georgia State University in 1990. He and Norma then joined Mission to the World and joined a church-planting team in Sydney, Australia, living and working there for two years. When that project was complete, he and Norma traveled to St. Louis, Missouri, where they enrolled at Covenant Seminary. After graduating in 1998, Glenn was called as Assistant Pastor to First Presbyterian Church, Dothan, Alabama. Next, he was called as Senior Pastor to First Presbyterian Church, Crossville, Tennessee. In 2004, Glenn was called as Assistant Pastor to Perry Presbyterian Church, Perry, Georgia. Glenn and Norma have three children. Glenn Jakes focuses most of his energy on making a difference with students, missions, discipleship development and music. In addition to these ministries, Glenn is a family-loving, guitar-playing, coffee-sipping, book-reading, dog-petting, beach-bumming, flag-waving follower of Jesus.
Pastor to Student Families at Intown Community Church, Atlanta, GA
Stephen is a visiting instructor at his alma mater, Covenant Theological Seminary, in partnership with the PCA’s NEXT Institute (www.youthministrythinking.com). He is currently pursuing a PhD in Educational Studies from Trinity Evangelical Divinity School. The best moments of his live involve hiking in the foothills of Georgia and playing board games with his wife, Krissi, and children Julianna and Judah.
Director of Student and Family Ministry at Yuong Sang Church, Greater Philadelphia Area, PA
Danny Kwon has been serving 27 years in ministry, 25 years leading the familyand youth ministry at Yuong Sang Church. Along with his love for sports, eating,and making people laugh, he is married to Monica, a familyand marriage biblical counselor and professor, and has three children, who all survived his youth ministry. He completed his Ph.D. in Organizational Leadership, with his dissertation focusing on innovation theoryand emerging intergenerational ministry paradigms. He is also speaker/trainer for The Youth Cartel, teaches as an adjunct professor at Eastern University and Covenant Seminary, and has authored three books “A Youth Worker’s Field Guide to Parents: Understanding Parents of Teenagers” and Mission Tripping: A Comprehensive Guide to Short Term Missions (Book and Team Journal)
Director of Girls’ Ministries Covenant PCA Birmingham, AL
Sara Litten grew up at Covenant Presbyterian Church where she has been on staff for 12 years. Having grown up in the youth ministry and with incredible youth ministry leaders she developed a love for teenagers as well as serving the church. During her senior year of high school a new youth pastor came on staff who not only rocked her understanding of what it meant to be a Christian but also encouraged her to think about going into ministry in the future after seeing gifts as a high school student. In college, she pursued an International Studies and Spanish degree thinking that she would be doing ministry overseas, but the Lord continued to lead her towards youth ministry. Those encouragements from her youth leader are what have led her to be on staff for 12 years at the same church she grew up in. Ministry staff has changed over the years as well as what it looks like to do youth ministry with a husband, to doing youth ministry with a 5 year old and an almost 2 year old, but love for teenagers has not. Teenagers are some of her favorite people to hang out with and she is honored to have the privilege of being able to walk alongside them as well as their parents in an understanding of the Gospel and how that changes them for the rest of their lives. She is also as immature as any 34 year old can be so working with teenagers lets her act a fool…it’s the best part of the job! She loves coffee all day every day, running, hiking, being outside, her family and could sit on the beach for the rest of her life but knows that’s not where God is calling her…yet, just kidding.
Student Ministry Staff StoneBridege PCA Charlotte, NC
Randi Tollner has served at StoneBridge since 2015 working with teenagers. Prior to that she studied at UNC Greensboro and came to faith there through campus ministry. Randi is passionate about discipleship and hanging with girls to point them to Christ.
Director of Student Ministries Seven Rivers PCA Lecanto, FL
May our sons in their youth be like plants full grown, our daughters like corner pillars cut for the structure of a palace. ”
— Psalm 144:12 (ESV)
ARE YOU STILL WONDERING ABOUT YOUTH MINISTRY?
We have tried to answer your questions, but we can’t cover every question about Youth Minsitry here, and we know some questions are unique to your church. We want to help you. Feel free to call or e-mail us and tell us about your church. At CDM, we are committed to helping you find the answers you need.
- Prepare Leaders–Young leaders may need to be prepared to disciple students with a knowledge of theology and the Bible. Older leaders may need to be equipped with terminology, social media, and cultural trends. Whether your leaders are young or old, it is important to offer them the training they need to be effective.
- Clearly Communicate Purpose–Leaders need to see how their contribution fits into the larger purpose of the ministry. It’s important to connect how cleaning up after a lock-in or showing up week after week for students who aren’t as committed, serves the Body of Christ and has an eternal impact. Remind them, and encourage them by pointing out how their sacrifice is an example of Christ to students.
- Appreciate Leaders–Young children are easily affectionate, teens are not. You can’t depend on the youth to be appreciative on their own. You need to equip them to tell their leaders thank you, and you need to equip their parents too, but appreciating leaders should also be a church-wide affair. Regularly put appreciating leaders on your church’s calendar. Say thank you from the pulpit, and make sure your leaders know how vital they are to being the hands and feet of Christ in your church!
Determining the pros and cons of splitting your youth group before making the decision can be helpful. These can range from the effect on parents with both junior and senior high children to the effectiveness of teaching when the students are combined. By doing this, some churches have come up with a “third way” where the groups are together for part of the youth group and separated for other portions.
Having a thought out response to why your youth program is combined for those parents who are worried that their junior high students are too young to be with the senior high students or to why you are not combined for those parents who are frustrated by having to make two trips to the church to drop off their children for different youth groups can be helpful in preventing in any potential conflict.
- Camps that will support the inerrancy of Scripture and the Gospel
- Camps with a purpose that will give students the opportunity to serve, lead, or share in a meaningful way
- Camps that will allow your group time to bond and develop deeper relationships
Here are some camps that are worth considering:
- YXL NORTHEAST & YXL HORNCREEK COLORADO —leadership camps
- RUSH—a student led conference for middle and high school students in Atlanta, GA
- EDGE–a junior high conference at Covenant College near Chattanooga, TN
- RYM—for middle and high school Reformed Youth Movement has conferences across the country
- RIDGE HAVEN— PCA camp for 3rd-12th graders in Brevard, NC
Yes. CDM connects your church to several networks of youth leaders. CDM would love to help advise you in this process. There are many things to consider when you hire Youth Staff: salary, experience, education, & church responsibilities. Our team can help walk you through these considerations and come up with a strategy that will work for your church.
- Looking for a ball park? Find out what a public school teacher in your area with comparable experience makes and use that as a starting place.
- What is the scope and responsibilities of the job? Are you looking for an inexperienced, part-time, Youth Director or an established, experienced, ordained Youth Pastor? As with any other profession, pay should reflect age, experience, and education of the candidate.
- Would you be willing to take on the same responsibilities for the amount of money that you are offering?
- Can our Youth Pastor and his family live in and participate socially in the community that our church is located in on this salary?